The things ladies DON’T want for Christmas
My last blog post caused a bit of a stir on Twitter, and prompted a lot of debate on what NOT to get the lady in your life for Christmas. Surprisingly a lot of them came up with the same answers. The good news lads and lasses is that they don’t want anything too expensive. But, apparently we do need to spend a lot more time and thought into what we buy.
So the list as follows includes:
Cheap Gold Jewellery
Although the gypsy girl look may be the thing this season, this does not extend to looking like you take the money on the dodgem cars. Gaudy, gold plated chunky jewellery is just an absolute no-no.
Any Practical Electrical Appliance
This includes vacuum cleaners, kettles, steamers, trouser presses, microwaves and so on. A gift is supposed to be a gift. A token of love and affection, not a reminder that your trousers need ironing. It is something you should want, and not really something you exactly need.
Or at least things we think are sexy. This includes cheap, tacky underwear, sex toys, or other silly ‘erotic’ gifts. The underwear thing seems to be the biggest bugbear. I suppose it is better, then to get them a La Senza gift voucher and let them get on with it themselves.
Now this one is wide open. It depends on how long you have been together I suppose and the gifts we buy are a measure of how much we listen to our better half. Thoughtless gifts don’t have to be cheap, they can be expensive as hell, but even the things we want them to like just don’t tick the right boxes some days. So the trick is this: Pay attention to them, if in doubt, ask them what they want. Good presents are rarely a surprise.